tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8082318878482787498.post4992984950983679479..comments2023-10-24T03:44:09.516-04:00Comments on Local Hottie of the Day - Philly: Atomic Bombshell's Anatomically Correct Dating AdviceRob B. Freshhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02362244706283117891noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8082318878482787498.post-39247447888193567602008-04-28T23:56:00.000-04:002008-04-28T23:56:00.000-04:00Hey atom bomb...nice summation. I don't think 1st ...Hey atom bomb...nice summation. I don't think 1st date wonder could have done anything else wrong, even if he tried. Look bro...u got to learn to recognize the obvious signs. Allow me to lay it out for you:<BR/><BR/>Mistake #1: you talked about past relationships. Never do this. Women love to do it on dates, but you don't do it! This is how they qualify you. Don't bore her w/411 about your ex...it's unattractive and just sounds like you are a sniveling nice guy. U prob lost her right here bro.<BR/><BR/>Mistake 2: Never ask about a womans's age. Are u nuts man? This is a no brainer, why bring it up? If she is legal and you like her, any talk about age can only hurt you.<BR/><BR/>Mistake 3: Never tell her you had a great time, it sounds like you are fishing for a, "I had a great time too." And of course she's going to say that b/c women like to avoid confrontation so of course she'll reciprocate your weak old "i had a great time" did you actually think she would say, "not me I just want to get away from your old self as fast as possible...later gramps." Plus it just sounds like you are a lonely boy, and it's anti-confidence.<BR/><BR/>Mistake 4: U called her the next day. U should always always always wait 5-9 days b4 calling. It builds anticipation, shows confidence, lets her know u got stuff going on in ur life and are not just sitting around waiting to call her back.<BR/><BR/>Mistake 5: U left a message. Confident men don't talk to answering machines they talk to women. Women use the answering machine to screen u out and it is also how they run the option play on you. NEVER LEAVE A MESSAGE. It's anti-confidence. Don't leave messages period, not at work, not to your family, not to anyone. Do what a confident man would do.<BR/><BR/>M 6: U left a text message. OK bro now we are entering into stalker territory. IF she likes u she will contact u or she would have returned your weak lame message from 2 days ago. IS this not OBVIOUS. (hey man i used to be a nice guy too so i know what u r going thru). Oh yeah, never leave a text, talk to women, not text messages. Plus the lame smiley face she gave u is the kiss of death. If u leave a voice message and a word text and the girl responds with some kind of symbol...it's the kiss of death. The old text symbol is women speak for "bro can't u take a hint? i'm not interested in u, u don't even warrant a voice dump, please interpret this smiley face to mean lose my number"<BR/><BR/>M 7: wow u texted her again...r u kidding me? OK bro imagine this. U meet a hot girl that u r even remotely attracted to. How many times is she going to have to try to contact u b4 she ends up talking to you. Once and probably not even that many times b/c u will probably contact her first. Look man grow a backbone and hang back for once in your life. If they like u they help you. If they don't like u, they send smiley faces.<BR/><BR/>Mistake 8: You took her words at face value. Look man she said to call you...fine. But women want to avoid conflict so they say things like that all the time. ACTIONS bro, what are her ACTIONS telling you? Syntax means very little in woman-speak, it's all about actions bro.<BR/><BR/>Look man I can help you, I was there before then I hit upon some really good dating advice that taught me to do the right thins and more importantly stop doing the wrong things. Check out my blog.<BR/><BR/>rocketmanDustin Aaron Sanchezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07867859604205362033noreply@blogger.com