Atomic Bombshell's Anatomically Correct Dating Advice

SEX ETTIQUETTE 101

This past week, I received two emails that were very similar. So I decided to step away from the usual Q & A and kill two birds with one stone. Let me break it down for you;

Email #1- Guy was dating a girl for six months and they broke up three months ago. He runs into her friend and starts flirting with her. He wants to know if it's ok if he tries to hook up with the friend.

Email #2- Guy has been having sex off and on with a girl for over a year. There is no real commitment and they are still seeing each other, here and there. He wants to bang one of her good friends. He doesn't understand why the girl that he is currently sleeping with is so upset?

Guys, please listen carefully to the following; IT IS NEVER OKAY TO BANG THE FRIEND OF A GIRL THAT YOU ARE HAVING SEX WITH. IT'S NEVER OKAY TO BANG YOUR EX-GIRLFRIENDS FRIENDS *UNLESS A VERY SIGNIFICANT AMOUNT OF TIME HAS PASSED SINCE THE BREAKUP. It's just sexual etiquette. It's not like a piece of food that you drop on the floor and there is a three second rule! Seriously! There are a million other girls that you should be trying to bang, friends are off limits! Besides, do you really want to sign up for the amount of drama that comes with that? And I would also like to add, that other girls find it very unappealing. (Yes, it will get out there and come back to haunt you at some point). Every conversation that this girl has for the next few months, will be about what you did. It's sad , but true. Girls sympathize because they hope that someone would never disrespect or hurt them in the same way. I know some guys could care less about what they bang or who. Really guys, it's too much bullshit for the booty AND it's just bad manners! There is PLENTY OF OTHER PU-NA-NA IN THE SEA!!!

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Atomic Bombshell's Anatomically Correct Dating Advice

Dear Atomic Bombshell,

I'm 27 years old. I have had a girlfriend for 3 years. In the beginning, we used to have a lot of sex. She was never really the kinky type it was always the same thing. Now, we hardly ever have sex. When we do there is no real foreplay and it's like she doesn't even want to kiss me. We get along pretty well and the only time we ever really fight is when I bring up sex. If I try and ask her why she goes nuts! This can't be what relationships are like, right? On the other hand, there is this girl at work that I'm friends with. I think she has been kind of flirting with me and I'm not sure what to do. Not to sound like a dog but I'm not having sex at home. I think you know where I'm going with this. I'm confused.

Ruben

Dear Ruben,

First of all, don't get yourself entangled with the girl from work if you are not sure you are ready to give up your girlfriend. Because you can't take back having sex with another woman. About your relationship, I'm not sure you were really ever satisfied in the sex department to begin with. Sex is not everything in a relationship, but it is IMPORTANT. No, long-term relationships don't end up sex-less. There could be a number of reasons why she is the way she is. You need to be able to at least talk about it. If you can't even look into your problems together, perhaps (if you truly love her) you should look into mediation or therapy. I am not a licensed therapist. Going for outside help is always a positive step. Take some time and think about what you want. In the mean time, buy some porn and give your hand a work out!

Sincerely,
Atomic Bombshell

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