My girlfriend is against me using Viagra. I have used it a few times in the past. She says that she doesn't like it. When I asked her why, she goes threw this whole fit about "Why? Am I not good enough?" I tried to explain to her that it just makes you last longer and it has nothing to do with desire. She just isn't getting it. A few nights ago, I snuck a Viagra and when I wanted to go for round two, she was complaining about being too tired. I thought I could sweet talk her into the second round when she started accusing me of taking Viagra. I told her that it wasn't a big deal. Once in a while I like to go again without passing out. She told me that if I take them again, she is going to break up with me. What is the big deal? I thought she would really like the fact that I wanted to go again??
Dear Hard Decision,
I, personally, am all for the use of Viagra for men AND WOMEN. (Of course, under the careful supervision of your physician) I don't really understand where your girlfriend is coming from. Unless, she doesn't like lasting sessions? You should really ask her to do some research on the drug before ruling it out of the bedroom, completely. You are absolutely right, it has nothing to do with desire. The desire for your girlfriend is already there. The drug helps with circulation to a certain area. The benefits can be wonderful for both parties. I give you a pat on the back for trying to add to your sex life. Most men, want to roll over and go to sleep. If you find that she won't change her mind and your relationship is good (assuming you're not addicted to the little blue pills) then give them up. Perhaps you should try something natural with the same effects? Don't let a good relationship fall apart over sneaking some Viagra. Good luck & thanks for reading.
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